THE ART OF LETTING GO... 

Why do we have to part ways while the love is 

there? While the friendship is still bonded? Why 

do we have to cry when someone bid goodbye? Why 

do beginning has an end? Why do we have to meet 

only to lose in end?

There are questions left unanswered, words left 

unsaid, letters left unread, poems left undone 

and promises left unfulfilled!

In a relationship or even in friendship one of 

the hardest things to do is letting go and saying 

goodbye. It is hard as breaking a crystal, Coz 

you'll never know when you will be able to pick 

up the pieces again. More often than not they who 

go feel not the pain of parting, it is they who 

stay behind that suffers because they are left 

with memories of love and friendship...that never 

was meant to be and never was...

At the beginning and at the end of any 

relationship we are embarrassed to find ourselves 

alone, unfair as it may seems, but that's the way 

how it goes... that's the drama, the bitter, the 

sweet and risk of a relationship. After all 

nothing is constant but change, everything will 

come to its end, without even knowing when, 

without knowing how, without knowing why and we 

have to forget not because we want to but because 

we must...!!!

In letting go sorrow comes not as a single spy 

but in a battalion, it seems that everywhere you 

go, everything you do, every song you hear, every 

turn of your head, every move of your body, every 

beat of your heart, every blink of your eyes and 

every breath you take always remind you of 

him/her.

It's like a stab of a knife, a torture in the 

night...funny how the whole world becomes 

populated when only one person is missing. Just 

imagine there are four billion people on earth 

yet you feel lonely and empty without the other...

I don't know if it is worth calling an art, but 

letting go entails special skills, sparkle with a 

considerable time and space. Time heals all 

wounds but it takes a little push on our part. 

Acceptance plays a vital role. Not all wishes 

come true. Not all love story ends with "And they 

live happily ever after".

Sometimes we have to part ways because of 

circumstances beyond our control, we have to 

suffer if it would mean happiness for another, 

and we have to cry to temporarily let go of the 

pain. Every beginning has an end like every dawn 

has its dark, its something we can't control, and 

something we have to live up...

Its over he/she is gone, but life has to go on!! 

Goodbye doesn't mean forever, there will always 

be a time where questions will be answered, words 

will be spoken, letters will be read, poems will 

be recited in the night, songs will be sung in 

harmony and love will be expressed in solitude, 

and promises will be fulfilled somewhere, somehow 

and someday.....!!!!!

When love is lost... relax! It just mean that 

another love is about to take place---a greater 

love. :) 

If you are holding on to something that DOESN'T 

belong to you and was never intended for your 

life, then you need to.....LET IT GO!!!

Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible

because u think that he/she doesn't miss u?

Missing someone is terrible but at the same
time,

a sweet feeling.

U will be sitting around wondering if u meant

anything to him/her.

Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.

Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that

it's him/her.

Looking out of the window hoping that he/she
will

surprise u by appearing downstairs.

Sitting in front of the television but thinking
of

him/her, missing the final episode of your
favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u

were out together.

Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the

stars again, talking about everything, your
dreams,plans,future.

Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her
online.

When u realise that he/she isn't online and did

not return your mail, U will start worrying if
he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess.

It exposes u to loneliness.

It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and
let u

know that there is actually a feeling known as
emptiness.....

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.

U know that u really care and u indulge in the
feeling of

loving/caring for him/her.

But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is

feeling the same is terrible.

U feel as if u are being left alone.

So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them
know.

At the same time, ask if they miss u.

Don't let the feeling of missing someone become
jealousy or paranoia.

If u are the one being missed and u know it, let
the other party know.

If u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them
wait.

And if the one you are missing can't/doesn't
reciprocate,

MOVE ON!!

Life is short, so instead of being hurt &
waiting
around-Move on!!

Belive in Urself & life, there's someone out
there waiting to miss U too!

On Unfounded Fears, Heartaches and Breaking-Up

One has to always put the end in mind. But that
is not the only
significant part of the journey. Keep in mind
that when we start any
journey, it is always the destination we look
at. But once we reach the
destination, it's the journey that we will
always remember. We should
not be too blinded with the destination that we
forget to enjoy the trip

going there.

Just like in a relationship, you just don't
think that you should enter
into a relationship because you will already
marry the person. You enter

into a relationship to get to know the person
better and discern if she
indeed could be that person walking down the
aisle with you. You have to

spend some time with her and find out if the two
of you are compatible
and could hit it off. You won't know this by not
giving the girl a
chance. You would not know all these things just
by the looks of the
girl or your first impression of her. Once you
are in that relationship,

that's the best chance to build on what the two
of you already have.

Don't break up with someone just because you
don't see yourself with the

other person for the rest of your life. Don't
jeopardize a possibly
wonderful relationship. How would you know that
the other person is the
right one if you don't give her/him a chance to
prove her worth? How
would you know that she/he could be the one if
you prematurely cut off
the relationship because at the moment you don't
see yourself sharing
the future with her/him? How would you know this
if you don't give
her/him the chance? And I tell you that it will
take you a long time (or

possibly never) to find another girl/guy like
her/him. Remember that its

not everyday that you meet someone who has the
magic to let you fall in
love!!!

It might be possible that you would still remain
as friends. But being
"together" opens a lot of possibilities and
opportunities that friends
do not get. Even if you remain as friends, you
would not be as close as

before. The intensity and the same feeling is no
longer there. The
relationship will no longer be on the same
level. We can't predict the
future, we just need to hope and to pray for the
best and for what is
right and believe that's how it will be.

In the movie "Can't Hardly Wait", there was a
line in that movie that
goes something like this: "Fate takes you just
as far. Destiny is when
everything falls right into place and its just
up to you to make it
happen."

Destiny is a mixture of chance and of choice.
Its not a thing to be
waited. You must make it happen. Don't you feel
that everything has
already fallen right into place and its up to
you to make it happen?
Everything is just so right and how would the
both of you know if this
indeed is fate or "the plan" if you would not
give it a try. The only
way for you to know is to at least give the
relationship a chance and
find out for yourselves. Don't miss this chance
of finding it out
because of some unfounded fears.

At least if you give it a try, you can say that
you did your best and
you found out for yourselves. Not just based on
some fear and
apprehension that are just part of the countless
possibilities that
might happen. If it doesn't work, at least,
after many years you would
know if the both of you really were meant for
each other rather than
regret and bear the thought of all the things
that might have been? At
least you would clear all the "what ifs" and
the "only ifs" in the
future. It will give the both of you peace of
mind.

Would you find it too much of a coincidence that
the both of you hit it
off so wonderfully. It seemed that you've known
each other for so long
already though you have not known each other for
that long. It seemed
that you knew each other from another life. And
each of you enjoyed
every bit of it. You were like soulmates who
finally found each other
after a very long separation. You had everything
going so well.
Everyhting happened as if everything just fell
right in place. Would you

consider it fate? It's up to you to make it
happen. What do you think?

You might say "This is something serious and
that I might be making a
big mistake and that I would just like to play
it cool. No room for
ambiguity here. Better, safe than sorry!" Better
safe than sorry?! To be

honest, in this world we live in, there is not a
full proof plan that
exist. If you always bear this idea in mind, I
don't know if you would
eventually find someone. You might just be too
scared of the bad things

that you would end up missing all the good stuff!

The best that you can do is give the
relationship a chance. You can
never succeed without even trying. You should
always hope for the best.
And to hope is to risk pain...or satisfaction.
To try is to risk failure

but risk must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is to risk
nothing. To risk nothing is to risk even more.
You might be taking the
risk of losing the one true thing that really
matters to you.

Guarantee that you will be second to none. You
would not completely know

if she/he may already be the one if you don't
give it a try. And it will

be more painful to lose someone you love and who
loves you more just
because you are waiting for the right time. How
will you ever know if
this is already the right thing at the right
time? What if the time is
now? When will you really know when the right
time is? You cannot love a

person too soon for you would never know how
soon it will be too late.
The greatest injustice love can ever offer is
you not loving at the very

right time only to find out later that it was
the right person.

You've got so much going on right now. You have
a lot of things in
common. Imagine what you can share for tomorrow.
You still have a lot of

things ahead of you. Learn about each other
together. You come to love
not by finding a perfect person but by learning
to see an imperfect
person perfectly. And besides, nobody is perfect.

When you truly love someone you don't look for
faults. You don't look
for answers. You don't look for mistakes.
Instead you fight for the
mistakes, you accept the faults and you overlook
excuses. If you truly
love someone, you just don't bail out on the
other person because there
is something wrong with her. You'll know that
it's true love you are
having if you are still willing to love that
person despite of his or
her flaws or infirmities.

The reason you met each other may be of destiny.
But if destiny will
suggest that you'll live without her, then why
live not by destiny but
of free will?


Love is like a knife.

I hate you because you were never there

I hate you because you never even cared

I hate you because of all the promises that were broken

I hate you because of all the thoughtless words you've spoken

I hate you because everything you said, I would believe

I hate you because you had to leave

I hate you because at this moment I just want to die

I hate you because you're making me cry

I hate you because you were never even in love with me

I hate you because you said we were always meant to be

I hate you because you lied

I hate you because you aren't here by my side

I hate you because I can't take the pain anymore

I hate you because no one has ever hurt me this bad before

I hate you because my life feels like it's coming to an end

I hate you because you won't even be my friend

I hate you because of all you've done

I hate you because I thought you were the right one

I hate you because you didn't want to fix anything when times were tough

I hate you because you hurt me enough

I hate you because I can't make you love me if you don't

I hate you because I can't make your heart feel something it won't

I hate you because you wouldn't catch me if I was to fall...

The more I think about hating you...the more I realize 

    that I don't even hate you at all.